I loved this part. It made me think so much about the conversations that shaped my life just before and after I arrived.
Here’s what I know:
- I am Rachel Lea after my late great-grandmothers Regina and Lillian.
- I was almost Rebecca Lily.
- If I were a boy I would have been Randy.
- My father wanted boy-me to be Rhys, but my mother really did not.
Do you know whom you’re named after or what else your name might have been?
-My full name is Simini-Laurén, or Simini Laurén, as there is some dispute as to the dash. On one document it was included and other not? I’m not sure.
-My mom had been saving the name Simini since she was 8, when she lived in a very small town and there was a woman named Simini Udall and she like the name. I’m not named after her or anything, she just liked it. Later found out Simini Udall had been an art teacher, so that’s fitting I suppose.
-Laurén is pronounced like LaRen, and was inspired by the actress Sophia Loren, because it was 1986. (again, not named after her per se, she just liked it).
-My mom wanted to name my Simini-Laurén Brachelle (or Michelle?) Blocker, but my dad said no way. This is also why there’s argument about the hyphentation.
-Not sure what I would have been named had I been a boy, probably Landen like my younger brother. When I was born and they told her she’d had a girl, my mom was so excited she jumped off the table yelling “A girl! a girl!!” Or so the story goes…
When she was 7 months pregnant, my mom had a dream where a baby boy unzipped her stomach*, popped his head out, said “Hello, my name is Russell, what’s your name?” And after that my mom was convinced that I was going to be a boy and I was going to be named Russell, so they never picked out a girl’s name.
Smash cut to the hospital and the big surprise that I was, and am, a girl. They knew my middle name would be Yates, my paternal grandmother’s maiden name, and so when they read in a People magazine left at the hospital that mediocre 80’s pop star and actress Pia Zadora had just delivered a baby girl and named her K-A-D-Y**, they decided that the two names sounded nice together and that was good enough.
*My mom is a nurse midwife, you’d think even in her dreams she would know that this is not how birthing babies works.
** Kady Zadora followed in her mother’s footsteps and is also a singer. I last saw her as a guest judge on RuPaul’s Drag Race.
My parents had planned John for a boy (after Mom’s deceased father) and Phoebe for a girl (after Dad’s favorite bird). In the end, Dad was already in the hospital when I was born, and for some reason they made the last-minute switch to Elizabeth, for reasons that have never been explained and may be lost to the ages due to painkillers.
My middle name, Jane, was my Dad’s mom’s name, and I consider myself lucky to have it - she was a smart, no-nonsense lady who introduced me to Little House on the Prairie and whiskey sours. Though not, you know, simultaneously.
I’m lucky to like my name a lot and I feel like it fits me. I also feel lucky that keeping my name when I get married has so far been a non-issue with all involved parties.
Life is full of difficult decisions.
Actual factor in our decision to get Amazon Prime.
September in southern Wisconsin
Gorgeous location, great photo.
New Dewey Decimal posters for the library!
These are so pretty! Do want!
We love these - and we’re so inspired by them!
NYC I AM IN YOU.
Love that quote. It’s from my partner’s favorite movie, and last year I got him a bouquet of pencils as a “back to school” gift. (He wasn’t back to school, but the teens at the high school next to his library were, and I thought he could use a pick-me-up).
Curse you Netflix autoplay!
Get ready for October! The Baltimore Orioles are your AL East Champions!
And thank you, City Paper Readers for picking us as the Best Bookstore in Baltimore and Hampden as the Best Neighborhood in the Readers Poll!
See you at Other World Book Club tomorrow! Gotta get some pre-orders in …